The goal of the Yoni massage is not soley to achieve orgasm, although orgasm is often a pleasant and welcome side effect. The goal can be made a simple as to pleasure and massage the Yoni, and from this perspective both you and your goddess can relax into the massage. When orgasm does occur it is usually more expanded, more intense and more satisfying.
Yoni massage may also be used to assist women to break through sexual blocks or trauma.
Before beginning the Yoni massage it is important to create a space for you in which to relax and from which you can more easily enter a state of high arousal and experience great pleasure from your Yoni.
Yoni is the sanskrit word for the vagina that is loosely translated as ‘Sacred Space’ or ‘Sacred Temple’. In tantra, the Yoni is seen from a perspective of love and respect.